Honoring Fight
They told you anger made you dangerous.
But what if it made you real?
This card honors fight as sacred selfhood —
not destruction, but defense.
Honoring Fawning
You called it kindness.
You called it care.
But really, you disappeared
so they wouldn’t leave.
Fawning isn’t weakness —
it’s survival.
A way your nervous system said:
“If I stay soft enough, maybe I’ll stay safe enough.”
But now, safety doesn’t have to mean self-erasure.
Your no is sacred too.